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Making the Most of the Time God Gives Us

iPadre Catholic Podcasting Posted on October 11, 2026 by Fr. Jay FinelliOctober 10, 2026  
Making the Most of the Time God Gives Us 20th Sunday After Pentecost - 2026

20th Sunday After Pentecost – 2026

“Making the most of the time, because the days are evil.” — Ephesians 5:16

Time has a way of slipping through our fingers like sand in an hourglass. It keeps moving, and we cannot stop it. Before we know it, a day, a season, or even a part of our life has passed.

St. Paul urges us to make the most of our time. We might look back and say, “If I had known then what I know now, I would have done things differently.” But the past cannot be reclaimed. We cannot get yesterday back. We can, however, choose how we live today.

St. Paul’s words are a reminder to use wisely the time we still have. The days are “evil” in the sense that they bring many distractions and temptations—things that can pull us away from God and from what matters most. This does not mean we cannot enjoy life or take time to rest. Recreation has its place. The challenge is to keep God at the center and not let our days slip by without purpose.

We can offer even the ordinary parts of life to God. Taking out the trash, shoveling snow, sweeping the kitchen floor, or stacking wood may not seem like spiritual acts. But when we do our daily work with patience, love, and gratitude, we can offer it to the Lord.

As St. Paul writes, “Whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31).

Prayer and the Holy Mass are central ways we give our lives to God. But the rest of our day belongs to Him, too. Our work, rest, and recreation can all become offerings when we do them with love and gratitude.

We cannot stop time or recover the moments that have passed. But we can give the moments before us to God. In prayer, at Mass, in our work, and even in our leisure, we can seek to serve Him. That is how we make the most of the time He gives us.

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From Mount Zion to the Heavenly Banquet

iPadre Catholic Podcasting Posted on October 10, 2026 by Fr. Jay FinelliOctober 10, 2026  
From Mount Zion to the Heavenly Banquet Twenty-Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time — Year A

Twenty-Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time — Year A

Epiphanies—moments when God makes Himself known—often take place on a mountain. In today’s first reading, Isaiah speaks of Mount Zion, the mountain of Jerusalem, where the Lord promises to prepare a feast for all peoples.

This is no ordinary banquet. God promises to remove the veil of sorrow, take away the reproach of His people, and “destroy death forever.” Isaiah looks ahead to the day when God will save His people and gather them into His presence. Their response is one of faith and joy: “Behold our God, to whom we looked to save us!”

That promise points us toward Calvary. In Jerusalem, Jesus offered Himself on the Cross. By His Passion and Death, He won the victory over sin and death and broke the power of Satan. We are redeemed by the Blood of the Lamb.

But the story does not end at Calvary. At every Mass, Christ’s one sacrifice is made present to us sacramentally. He offers Himself to the Father in an unbloody manner, and we are drawn into the worship of heaven. The Letter to the Hebrews describes this mystery as coming to “Mount Zion and to the city of the living God.” At Mass, heaven and earth meet.

Isaiah’s promised feast also leads us to the altar. In the Old Covenant, the people partook of the sacrificial offering. In the Eucharist, we receive the Body and Blood of the Lamb of God. Christ gives Himself to us as food for the journey and as a pledge of the glory to come. The Eucharist is a foretaste of the heavenly banquet.

Mount Zion points us toward the Mass and, ultimately, toward heaven. Each time we participate in the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, we touch the reality for which we long: eternal communion with God. We receive a foretaste of our heavenly home and are prepared to enter it.

The Church expresses this hope in her prayer over the Eucharist: “O sacred banquet, in which Christ is received, the memory of his Passion is renewed, the mind is filled with grace, and a pledge of future glory to us is given.”

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Roses for Our Lady: The Power of the Holy Rosary

iPadre Catholic Podcasting Posted on October 4, 2026 by Fr. Jay FinelliOctober 3, 2026  
Roses for Our Lady - The Power of the Holy Rosary

Homily for the first Sunday of October

This Wednesday, October 7, the Church celebrates the Feast of Our Lady of the Rosary. Traditionally, the Sunday closest to the feast has been known as Rosary Sunday.

October is also the month of the Holy Rosary, making this a wonderful time to rediscover this beautiful and powerful prayer and to make it once again a part of our daily lives.

St. Dominic and the Rosary

At the beginning of the 13th century, the Church was plagued by the Albigensian heresy.

Simply stated, the Albigensians believed that there were two opposing forces: one good, which created the spiritual world, and another evil, which created the material world. They also taught that Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit were merely creatures.

This heresy was spreading and leading many people away from the true Faith.

St. Dominic felt called to fight it. Although he was well educated and a gifted preacher, his preaching accomplished very little in the beginning.

Finally, Dominic turned to prayer and pleaded for help.

It was then that Our Lady gave him the Rosary and promised that the Rosary would give power to his words.

And it did.

Through the Rosary, his preaching began to bear fruit, and souls were brought back to the Faith.

The Power of the Rosary

Throughout the centuries, many miracles have been attributed to the Rosary. Two remarkable examples took place in Japan when the United States dropped the first atomic bombs.

On August 6, 1945, the atomic bomb was dropped on Hiroshima.

A house of Jesuit missionaries was located only about eight blocks from the center of the explosion. Everything around them was completely annihilated.

Yet the church, the house where the Jesuits lived, and all eight Jesuits were spared.

Even more remarkably, none of the Jesuits suffered the effects of radiation poisoning, nor did they suffer hearing loss.

When they came outside and saw that everything around them had been leveled, they were shocked.

The Jesuits attributed their survival to one thing:

They prayed the Rosary together every day, as requested by Our Lady of Fatima.

Something similar happened in Nagasaki, where a group of Franciscans was also spared.

These remarkable events remind us of the tremendous power of prayer and of the protection of Our Blessed Mother.

Beneath the Mantle of Our Lady

When we pray the Rosary, we place ourselves within the mantle of Our Lady’s Immaculate Heart.

Just as those eight Jesuits in Hiroshima and the Franciscans in Nagasaki entrusted themselves to Our Lady, we entrust ourselves to her.

We ask her to protect us, to intercede for us, and above all, to lead us closer to her Divine Son.

The Rosary is not simply the repetition of familiar prayers. As our fingers move from bead to bead, we contemplate the mysteries of the life of Jesus with His Mother beside us.

Offering Roses to Our Mother

I have to admit that I sometimes have great difficulty praying the Rosary. The repetition often puts me to sleep!

But Eileen George gave us a beautiful little tool that can help us pray the Rosary successfully.

She said that when we pray the Rosary, we should imagine that we are making an offering of roses to our Mother.

During the Our Father at the beginning of each decade, purchase a spiritual vase. Imagine whatever kind of vase you would like. It can be tall or short, clear or white or gold—whatever you think would be beautiful.

Then, during the Hail Marys, purchase roses.

For each decade, choose a different color. One decade might be white roses, another red, another gold, another pink, and another blue.

With each Hail Mary, place another beautiful rose into the vase.

Then, when you pray the Glory Be, place a beautiful ribbon around your vase.

Finally, when you come to the Hail, Holy Queen, imagine yourself standing before Our Blessed Mother.

You now have five beautiful vases filled with roses.

Offer them all to her.

What a beautiful way to pray the Rosary.

Every Hail Mary becomes a rose offered to our Mother.

Give Our Lady Some Roses This October

During this month of the Holy Rosary, perhaps we can make a renewed commitment to this beautiful prayer.

Pick up your Rosary.

Begin with just one decade if necessary.

And with every Hail Mary, offer another rose to Our Blessed Mother.

May we offer her many roses during this month of October. And as we place those roses before her, may she spread her mantle over us, protect us, lead us ever closer to her Divine Son, and obtain for us an abundance of God’s graces and blessings.

Our Lady of the Rosary, pray for us.

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Keep Carrying Them to Jesus: The Power of Intercessory Prayer

iPadre Catholic Podcasting Posted on September 27, 2026 by Fr. Jay FinelliSeptember 26, 2026 1
Keep Carrying Them to Jesus: The Power of Intercessory Prayer 18th Sunday After Pentecost — 2026

18th Sunday After Pentecost — 2026

There are people for whom we have prayed for years.

A son or daughter who has stopped practicing the Faith. A family member who has not been to Confession in decades. Someone struggling with addiction. A marriage that seems beyond repair. A friend who has turned away from God.

We pray. And we pray again.

Months pass. Years pass. And sometimes absolutely nothing seems to change.

It is easy to become discouraged and wonder: Is my prayer accomplishing anything?

The Gospel for the 18th Sunday after Pentecost gives us a beautiful answer. It teaches us that sometimes our vocation is simply to keep carrying someone to Jesus.

“Jesus, Seeing Their Faith”

Our Lord had crossed the Sea of Galilee and returned to Capernaum, the city that had become the center of His public ministry in Galilee. Even today, visitors entering the ruins of ancient Capernaum encounter a sign proclaiming:

“Capernaum — The Town of Jesus.”

It was there that a group of men brought a paralytic to Our Lord.

The man was apparently so severely afflicted that he could not come to Jesus on his own.

Others had to carry him.

And then St. Matthew gives us a remarkable detail:

“And Jesus, seeing their faith…”
(Matthew 9:2)

Notice what the Gospel says.

Not simply his faith.

Their faith.

These men believed enough to pick up their friend, carry him to Jesus, and place him before the Lord.

The paralytic could not get there by himself.

So his friends carried him.

Our Lord first addressed the man’s deepest need: “Have confidence, son, thy sins are forgiven thee.” Then, as a visible demonstration of His divine authority, Jesus commanded him:

“Arise, take up thy bed, and go into thy house.”

And the man arose.

We Are the Ones Carrying the Stretcher

There is a profound lesson here about intercessory prayer.

We are those men carrying the paralytic.

Every time we intercede for another person, spiritually speaking, we pick that person up and carry him before Jesus.

A mother carries a wayward son or daughter.

A father carries his family.

A priest carries his people “to the altar of God.”

A contemplative monk or nun, hidden from the eyes of the world, carries countless souls before God.

And the Church herself continually carries all of us poor sinners to Christ.

Sometimes the person for whom we are praying cannot—or will not—come to Jesus on his own.

Then we carry him.

We carry him in the Rosary.

We carry him in our Holy Communions.

We carry him before the Blessed Sacrament.

We carry him through our sacrifices and penances.

Above all, we carry him to the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass.

And perhaps one day Our Lord will look upon that soul and, in His mercy, see something of our faith too.

What If Nothing Seems to Happen?

This is where perseverance becomes difficult.

We want results.

We pray for someone’s conversion and expect to see a change. We pray for a marriage and expect reconciliation. We pray for someone trapped in addiction and expect freedom.

But God’s time is not our time.

Grace can be working in a human soul long before anything becomes visible on the outside. God may be preparing a person through events, conversations, sufferings, memories, or circumstances of which we know absolutely nothing.

That is why we must never conclude that prayer is useless simply because we cannot see its effects.

Perhaps you have prayed for someone for twenty or thirty years.

Keep carrying that person to Jesus.

Perhaps someone in your family has stopped going to Mass and Confession.

Keep carrying that person to Jesus.

Perhaps someone you love is trapped in addiction.

Keep carrying that person to Jesus.

Perhaps a marriage seems beyond repair.

Keep carrying them to Jesus.

Perhaps we look at wars, violence, persecution, and division throughout the world and wonder whether our prayers for peace accomplish anything.

Keep carrying the world to Jesus.

A Power Hidden From the World

Christians possess a kind of power that the world does not understand.

It is not worldly power. It is not political power. It is not the power of wealth, influence, prestige, or position.

It is the power of intercession.

Think of the countless prayers that rise before God every day.

A mother quietly praying her Rosary for a child who has lost the Faith.

An elderly man sitting alone before the Blessed Sacrament.

A priest placing the intentions of his people upon the altar.

A cloistered nun offering her life for people she will never meet.

A suffering person offering his pain for the conversion of a loved one.

A parishioner whispering the name of someone at the moment of the Consecration.

The world sees none of this.

God sees all of it.

We may never know in this life how many graces were obtained through prayers uttered quietly in a darkened church, Holy Communions offered for someone who had fallen away, a mother’s tears for her child, or the sacrifices of someone who thought he had very little left to give.

No sincere prayer offered to God is wasted.

The answer may not come in the form we expect. It may not come when we expect. And sometimes God’s answer is very different from the one for which we prayed.

But our task is faithfulness.

Pick Up the Stretcher Again

Maybe there is someone in your life right now who seems spiritually paralyzed.

Perhaps that person cannot come to Jesus.

Perhaps that person will not come to Jesus.

Then remember those men in Capernaum.

Pick up the stretcher.

Carry that person to Jesus.

And if tomorrow nothing seems to have changed, pick it up again.

And the next day, again.

And next month, again.

And next year, again.

Never stop carrying them to Jesus.

As Padre Pio so often counseled:

“Pray, hope, and don’t worry.”

For one day, perhaps when we least expect it, Christ may look upon the person we have carried before Him for so long—

and see our faith.

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The Liturgy: A Book Without Words

iPadre Catholic Podcasting Posted on September 26, 2026 by Fr. Jay FinelliSeptember 26, 2026  
The Liturgy: A Book Without Words Homily for the 26th Sunday In Ordinary Time - Year A

Homily for the 26th Sunday In Ordinary Time – Year A

Why the Externals of Catholic Worship Matter

The sacred Liturgy is filled with external signs and gestures: the Sign of the Cross, genuflecting, kneeling, bowing, striking our breast, standing at particular moments, and countless other actions that Catholics sometimes perform almost instinctively.

But why do we do these things?

They are not empty gestures or remnants of another age. They give visible expression to an invisible reality. Our Catholic faith is not merely something we hold privately in our minds or feel within our hearts. We are creatures of body and soul, and therefore we worship God with both body and soul.

St. Paul gives us a beautiful example of this in his Letter to the Philippians:

“At the name of Jesus every knee should bend, of those in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord.”

Notice that St. Paul speaks about both the body and the voice. The knee bends. The tongue confesses.

Faith is interior, but faith expresses itself exteriorly.

Our Bodies Profess What We Believe

When a Catholic enters a church and genuflects toward the tabernacle, that simple action says something profound:

I believe Jesus Christ is truly present here.

When we kneel during the Eucharistic Prayer, our bodies proclaim that something extraordinary is taking place. When we bow, we acknowledge that we stand before Someone infinitely greater than ourselves. When we make the Sign of the Cross, we profess our faith in the Most Holy Trinity and in the saving Cross of Christ.

These actions also bear witness to others.

Someone watching a Catholic genuflect before the Blessed Sacrament may not know everything the Church teaches about the Real Presence, but the gesture itself says: There is Someone here before whom I bend my knee.

This is one reason the externals of Catholic worship matter.

The Liturgy Forms Us

There is an ancient Catholic principle:

Lex orandi, lex credendi — the law of prayer is the law of belief.

It is sometimes expanded with another important idea: lex vivendi, the law of living.

Put simply:

How we pray affects what we believe, and what we believe affects how we live.

The sacred Liturgy does more than express our faith. It also forms our faith.

When we kneel, our bodies teach our souls humility.

When we genuflect, we make an act of faith.

When we bow, we acknowledge God’s majesty.

When we maintain reverent silence, we remind ourselves that we have entered sacred space.

The things we repeatedly do eventually help form the people we become.

What Happens When the Signs Disappear?

This is why we should be careful about dismissing the externals of our Catholic faith as unnecessary.

If every outward expression of reverence gradually disappears, there is a danger that the interior reality those signs express will also become less vivid to us.

If we stop acting as though we are standing before the living God, it becomes easier to forget that we really are standing before Him.

If the altar begins to look and be treated like an ordinary table, our consciousness of the sacrificial character of the Mass can weaken.

If we cease showing particular reverence toward the tabernacle, our awareness of the Real Presence of Jesus Christ in the Blessed Sacrament can become less acute.

The Church understands human nature. We are not angels. We do not worship as disembodied spirits.

We have bodies.

And our bodies participate in our worship.

A Book Without Words

Consider what our Catholic gestures proclaim.

If Jesus Christ were not truly present in the Blessed Sacrament, why would we genuflect?

If the Mass were not the sacramental re-presentation of the Sacrifice of Calvary, why would we kneel before the altar?

Why incense the altar?

Why incense the Blessed Sacrament?

Why distinguish the sanctuary from the rest of the church?

Why maintain sacred silence?

These things make sense because of what Catholics believe is actually happening.

The externals of the sacred Liturgy are almost like a book without words. They teach the ancient and enduring faith of the Church in the divine mysteries taking place before us.

A child may learn something about the Real Presence before he can explain the theology of transubstantiation simply by watching his parents kneel.

A visitor may realize that Catholics believe something extraordinary about the Eucharist simply by seeing an entire congregation fall to its knees.

Our actions preach.

The Gestures of Love

There is an even simpler way to understand all of this.

When we love someone, we do not merely think, “I love you.”

We express it.

We embrace someone we love. We take a beloved person’s hand. A mother kisses her child. A husband kisses his wife. The outward gesture gives expression to something invisible within the heart.

Our gestures toward God are similar.

Every reverent Sign of the Cross, every genuflection, every bow, every moment spent kneeling before the Blessed Sacrament can become an act of love.

With our whole person—body and soul—we say:

“Lord, I believe. I adore. I hope. And I love You.”

May the way we worship deepen the way we believe.

May the way we believe transform the way we live.

And may our lives bear witness to the great truth proclaimed by St. Paul:

“At the name of Jesus every knee should bend … and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord.”

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When Death Met the Lord of Life

iPadre Catholic Podcasting Posted on September 6, 2026 by Fr. Jay FinelliSeptember 5, 2026  

15th Sunday After Pentecost — 2026

In this Sunday’s Gospel, Saint Luke recounts three encounters with Our Lord. A grieving mother encounters His compassion, a dead man encounters His divine power, and a crowd encounters the presence of God. No one is left unchanged.

Jesus and His disciples were approaching the city of Naim. As they reached the gate, they met a funeral procession coming out of the city. A young man had died, and his widowed mother was following his body to the grave.

This poor woman must have suffered greatly. Her husband had already died, and now her only son was dead. She faced not only the terrible grief of losing her child, but also deep anxiety about her future. In the world in which she lived, her husband and son would have been her providers and protectors. Now both had been taken from her. She was truly alone, and her future was uncertain.

But through the gate of Naim came the Lord of Life—the One who would declare, “I am the resurrection and the life.”

The widow did not ask Jesus for anything. Perhaps she was too brokenhearted even to notice that He was approaching. But Jesus noticed her. He saw her grief, entered into her pain and loneliness, and said:

“Do not weep.”

These words might have sounded impossible. How could she not weep? Her only son was being carried to the grave. Yet Jesus could tell her not to weep because He knew what He was about to do.

He then stepped forward and touched the bier. At once, everything stopped: “The bearers stood still.”

This was the second encounter—the encounter between Jesus and the dead young man.

Jesus did not pray or look up toward heaven. He simply issued a command:

“Young man, I say to thee, arise.”

God alone can command the dead to return to life. At creation, God spoke His word and life came into being. At the gate of Naim, Jesus spoke His word and life was restored. The young man sat up and began to speak, and Jesus gave him back to his mother.

There were two processions at Naim that day. One procession was leaving the city, following death toward the grave. The other was entering the city, following Jesus Christ, the Lord of Life. When those two processions met, death was forced to stop.

The third encounter was between Jesus and the crowd. The widow had been accompanied by “a large crowd from the city.” They had come to mourn with her and to accompany her son to his burial. But when the young man was restored to life, “fear seized them all, and they glorified God.”

They had encountered the power of God standing in their midst. There is only One who possesses authority over life and death—and that is God.

A true encounter with Jesus Christ changes people. A grieving mother was given hope. A dead man was restored to life. A large crowd was filled with holy fear and began to glorify God.

The same Jesus has the power to change us. He can restore hope to the brokenhearted. He can convert the most hardened sinner. He can bring a soul dead through mortal sin back to the life of sanctifying grace.

There may be people in our families, our parishes, and our world whom we consider beyond hope. Perhaps we have prayed for them for years and have seen no change. We may be tempted to give up. But no one is beyond the reach of God’s grace.

Spend time before the Blessed Sacrament seeking a personal encounter with the living Lord Jesus Christ. Bring with you, in prayer, those who have wandered far from Him. Place before Jesus those who are spiritually dead through sin. Pray for them, offer sacrifices for them, and do penance for their conversion.

The same Lord who approached the funeral procession at Naim is present in the Blessed Sacrament. He still sees the brokenhearted. He still approaches those who have no hope. He still possesses the power to raise the dead.

Place those hardened hearts before Him and beg Him to touch their souls and command:

“Young man, I say to thee, arise.”

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It Is Better to Talk With a Person Than to Talk About Them

iPadre Catholic Podcasting Posted on September 6, 2026 by Fr. Jay FinelliSeptember 5, 2026  

23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time – A

In this Sunday’s Gospel, Jesus gives us some very practical advice about dealing with conflict:

“If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.” (Matthew 18:15)

It sounds simple enough. But it is often one of the hardest things to do.

When someone hurts us, says something about us, treats us unfairly, or does something seriously wrong, our first reaction may be anger. And when we are angry, instead of going to the person involved, we often go to everyone else.

“Do you know what he did to me?”

“You won’t believe what she said.”

“Look how badly I was treated.”

Before long, something that began between two people has been shared with five, ten, or twenty others.

And nothing has been solved.

In fact, the situation is usually worse.

Go to the Person

Jesus gives us a very different approach: go to the person privately.

Why privately?

Because sometimes what appears to be a serious offense is actually a misunderstanding. Perhaps we misunderstood what was said. Perhaps we did not know all the circumstances. Perhaps the other person had no idea that what he said or did had hurt us.

A simple, honest conversation can sometimes clear up in five minutes what days or weeks of anger and resentment never could.

Speaking privately also protects the dignity of the other person. Most people react much more calmly when they do not feel that they are being publicly attacked, embarrassed, or humiliated.

And perhaps the person really did do something wrong. A private conversation gives him the opportunity to explain, reconsider his actions, apologize, and make things right.

It also gives us an opportunity to listen. We may discover that there is another side to the story.

How many problems between husbands and wives, parents and children, brothers and sisters, friends, neighbors, coworkers, and fellow parishioners could be resolved if we simply took the words of Jesus seriously?

The Damage Done by Gossip

There is another reason Jesus’ advice is so important.

When we immediately begin telling others about someone’s faults, we can easily fall into gossip and detraction.

The Catechism teaches that detraction occurs when, without an objectively valid reason, we disclose another person’s faults and failings to people who did not know them.

Everyone has a right to his good name and reputation. Once we damage someone’s reputation, that damage can be very difficult to repair.

Gossip also has a way of spreading.

One person tells another. That person tells someone else. Details are added, circumstances are forgotten, and before long people who had nothing whatsoever to do with the original disagreement have formed opinions and taken sides.

Walls begin to go up.

Resentment grows.

Trust disappears.

And reconciliation becomes much more difficult.

This can destroy friendships. It can divide families. It can poison workplaces. And, sadly, it can do tremendous damage within a parish or other community.

The Christian Way Is Different

The Gospel calls us to something better.

Christianity is not only about reconciliation between ourselves and God. The grace we receive from God should change the way we treat one another.

We are called to forgive.

We are called to love.

We are called to seek peace.

And whenever possible, we are called to heal the hurts and divisions that arise between us.

That does not mean pretending that nothing happened. Jesus does not tell us to ignore wrongdoing. In fact, He specifically tells us to address it.

But He tells us how to address it.

Go to your brother.

Speak honestly.

Speak privately.

Listen.

Give him an opportunity to explain.

Give him an opportunity to apologize.

And give reconciliation an opportunity to begin.

The next time someone hurts us, before we pick up the telephone, send a text, post something online, or tell someone else what happened, perhaps we should remember the words of Jesus.

And remember one simple rule:

It is better to talk with a person than to talk about them.

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It’s Not Easy to Be a Catholic

iPadre Catholic Podcasting Posted on August 30, 2026 by Fr. Jay FinelliAugust 29, 2026  

Years ago, an older woman I knew used to say, “It’s so easy to be a Catholic.”

I have to disagree.

Perhaps it is easy to call yourself a Catholic. It may even be easy to practice a kind of “Catholic lite”—going through the motions, keeping the parts of the Faith that are comfortable, and quietly setting aside the things that demand too much of us.

But to be a good and faithful Catholic? To strive seriously for holiness?

That isn’t easy at all.

The Honeymoon Doesn’t Last

Anyone who has experienced a conversion knows what I mean.

Perhaps you came to the Catholic Faith for the first time. Perhaps you returned after years away. Or perhaps you were Catholic all your life but experienced a reversion—a moment when the Faith suddenly became real and you decided that you wanted to follow Jesus Christ seriously.

There can be a kind of honeymoon period.

Prayer is exciting. You want to learn everything you can about the Faith. You begin changing things in your life. You discover the saints, the Sacraments, Eucharistic Adoration, spiritual reading, perhaps devotions you never knew before.

Everything seems new.

Then, sooner or later, the honeymoon ends.

Prayer becomes difficult. Temptations return. Enthusiasm fades. Old habits begin tugging at us again. The demands of the Faith don’t always fit comfortably with what we want.

And that is when the real work begins.

Our Lord never promised us an easy road. In fact, He told us precisely the opposite:

“Make your way in by the narrow gate. It is a broad gate and a wide road that leads on to perdition, and those who go in that way are many indeed; but how small is the gate, how narrow the road that leads on to life, and how few there are that find it!”
— Matthew 7:13–14

The road to heaven is narrow because following Christ requires conversion—and conversion is not something that happens only once.

It is the work of a lifetime.

We Are in a Battle

There is another reality that we sometimes don’t like to talk about.

The moment we begin taking our relationship with Christ seriously, we discover that we are in a battle.

The devil does not simply stand aside while someone begins moving toward God.

Temptation comes. Discouragement comes. Distraction comes. Sometimes it is something obviously sinful. More often, perhaps, it is something much more subtle: comfort, laziness, pleasure, compromise, or the quiet suggestion that we don’t need to take all of this quite so seriously.

If we fail to recognize that we are in a spiritual battle, we become an easy target.

St. Augustine knew this battle extraordinarily well.

Before his conversion, he desperately wanted God, but another part of him remained attached to his former way of life. In his Confessions, he describes the struggle:

“Thus did my two wills, one old and the other new, one carnal, the other spiritual, contend within me.”
— Confessions, VIII, 5

Augustine did not literally possess two wills. He was describing the conflict taking place within himself.

And I think every serious Catholic recognizes it.

I want God—but I also want comfort.

I want to pray—but sometimes I would rather do something else.

I want to become holy—but I don’t necessarily want the sacrifices holiness requires.

I know what I should do—but sometimes I simply don’t feel like doing it.

That is the battle.

And none of us is exempt from it.

God Has Given Us Weapons

Thankfully, Our Lord has not sent us into battle defenseless.

He has given us the weapons we need.

Prayer. Penance. Sacrifice. Study. The Sacraments.

These are not merely pious extras for particularly devout Catholics. They are essential elements of the spiritual life.

We need to form our minds so that we know what is true.

We need to form our hearts so that we learn to love what God loves.

And we need to strengthen our wills so that we can choose what is good even when we don’t feel like choosing it.

Jesus tells us:

“You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.”

The modern world has a strange understanding of freedom. It often tells us that freedom means doing whatever we want whenever we want to do it.

Christian freedom is something very different.

Real freedom is having the ability to choose what is good.

A person enslaved by his passions is not free simply because he is allowed to satisfy them.

The saint is free.

The saint has become so conformed to Christ that he can choose the good even when doing so requires sacrifice.

And that kind of freedom takes formation, discipline and grace.

We Cannot Win This Battle Alone

This brings us back to St. Augustine.

After his conversion, Augustine understood something that is absolutely essential to the Catholic spiritual life: we cannot make ourselves holy.

He writes:

“The determination of the human will is insufficient, unless the Lord grant it victory.”
— On Grace and Free Will, 9

We need grace.

We cannot save ourselves by determination. We cannot overcome sin merely by gritting our teeth and trying harder. We cannot conquer the world, the flesh and the devil through sheer willpower.

We need God.

But grace does not eliminate our freedom. Grace strengthens and perfects it. God acts, and we cooperate with His action.

That is why we pray.

That is why we do penance.

That is why we make sacrifices.

That is why we study our Faith.

That is why we receive the Sacraments.

That is why we go to Confession when we fall and begin again.

And that is why a serious Catholic never gives up.

So, is it easy to be a Catholic?

No.

The gate is small. The road is narrow. There is a battle to be fought.

But we do not fight alone.

Christ gives us the weapons. Christ gives us the Sacraments. Christ gives us His Church.

And, above all, Christ gives us the grace to win the battle.

The road may be narrow, but we know where it leads.

To eternal life.

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Ministry Comes With a Cost

iPadre Catholic Podcasting Posted on August 29, 2026 by Fr. Jay FinelliAugust 29, 2026  

During our priests’ retreats, Eileen George would often tell us:

“Everyone wants the gift of healing, or they want some kind of big ministry, but they don’t know: ministry comes with a cost.”

I have thought about those words many times over the years. There is a great deal of wisdom in them.

It is easy to admire a vocation from the outside. We see the priest at the altar, the missionary preaching the Gospel, the religious giving his or her life to prayer and service, or the layperson carrying out some important apostolate. We see what God accomplishes through them.

What we do not always see is the cost.

The prophet Jeremiah knew that cost very well.

When God called Jeremiah to be a prophet, he could not have understood everything that vocation would entail. A prophet is not someone who decides what he wants to say. He is called by God to speak the Word of God clearly and without compromise.

That means speaking what God gives you—not what you would prefer to say, not what will make you popular, and not necessarily what people want to hear.

And sometimes there is a price to be paid for that fidelity.

Jeremiah experienced rejection, persecution, isolation, and imprisonment. He reached a point where he wanted to stop. He had endured enough. He resolved that he would no longer speak in the name of the Lord.

But he could not remain silent.

The Word of God had become, as Jeremiah described it, like a fire burning within his heart and imprisoned in his bones. He tried to contain it, but he could not.

That fire was his vocation.

God Calls; We Respond

Jeremiah teaches us something essential about every vocation: vocation begins with God, not with us.

We do not initiate the call. God does.

God chooses whom He wills. He calls whom He wills. He sends whom He wills.

That can be difficult for us to understand because we tend to think in terms of qualifications. We look at ourselves and ask: Am I capable? Am I talented enough? Am I strong enough? Do I have what it takes?

But those are not always the most important questions.

When God calls, He supplies what is lacking.

I sometimes think of us as empty vessels standing before an immense reservoir. The vessel does not produce the water. It simply receives it and carries it where it is needed.

So it is with vocation.

We do not produce grace. We receive it.

We do not save souls. God saves souls.

We do not possess within ourselves everything necessary to accomplish the mission entrusted to us. We depend upon God to provide what we lack.

Our task is to remain open—to be available, prayerful, obedient, and faithful.

The Fire of the Priesthood

Jeremiah’s experience resonates particularly with the vocation of the priest.

A priest may sometimes look at himself and wonder, Why did God call me?

Ultimately, that is God’s business.

Priests are ordinary human beings. We come from ordinary families and communities. We have strengths and weaknesses, hopes and fears, gifts and limitations. We become tired. We can become discouraged. We can be misunderstood. We can experience loneliness and rejection.

And sometimes we can be tempted to avoid difficult truths because speaking the truth faithfully can come with a cost.

But the fire must never be allowed to go out.

Through prayer, sacrifice, dedication, and fidelity, the fire God placed within the soul at the moment of vocation can be rekindled again and again.

Sometimes it may seem to have dwindled to a few glowing embers.

But God can breathe upon those embers.

And suddenly the fire comes roaring back.

That fire becomes zeal—zeal for Christ, zeal for His Church, and above all, zeal for souls.

Pray That the Fire Never Goes Out

Eileen George was right.

Ministry comes with a cost.

So does every vocation worth living.

But God never calls us merely to burden us. He calls us because He intends to accomplish something through us. And when He calls, He also gives the grace necessary to persevere.

Pray for your priests.

Pray for religious.

Pray for seminarians and those discerning their vocations.

Pray for every man and woman whom God has called to some ministry or apostolate within His Church.

Pray especially that the fire of the Holy Spirit will continue to burn within them, giving them an ever deeper desire for the salvation of souls.

For ultimately, that is why the Church exists: to bring souls to Jesus Christ and, through Him, to eternal life.

And that is the purpose of every vocation God gives to His Church.

May the fire never go out.

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Jesus, the Divine Good Samaritan -12th Sunday After Pentecost — 2026

iPadre Catholic Podcasting Posted on August 16, 2026 by Fr. Jay FinelliAugust 16, 2026  

We often think of the Good Samaritan as an example of caring for the poor, the homeless, and those in need—and certainly he is. Our Lord concludes the parable by telling us, “Go, and do thou in like manner.”

But there is another, deeper way of looking at this parable. The wounded man lying along the road is not simply someone else whom we are called to help. That wounded man is us. He is all of humanity.

Humanity was wounded through Original Sin. Sin robbed man of sanctifying grace and broke the harmony that God intended between Himself and His creation. And since the fall of Adam, the wounds of sin have continued to spread throughout the human family.

We experience those wounds in our own lives. Every time we sin, and especially through mortal sin, we wound our relationship with God. Sin leaves us spiritually weakened and, in the case of mortal sin, separated from the life of grace.

But sin never affects only the person who commits it.

Our personal sins affect our families, our communities, the Church, and the world around us. Just as every act of virtue sends ripples outward, so does every act of sin. A hidden act of charity makes the world a little better. A hidden sin contributes to its brokenness.

This is why St. Paul tells us that “the whole creation groaneth and travaileth in pain” (Romans 8:22). Creation itself bears the wounds of mankind’s rebellion against God.

We are like that man in the Gospel—wounded, stripped, and lying helpless along the road.

And then comes the Good Samaritan.

Jesus does not pass us by.

He sees fallen humanity lying wounded along the road and bends down to save us. Through His Passion, Death, and Resurrection—the Paschal Mystery—He enters into our brokenness, lifts us up, and carries us to safety.

The Fathers of the Church saw a beautiful image of this in the parable. The wounded traveler represents fallen humanity. Christ is the Good Samaritan. And the inn to which the Samaritan carries the wounded man is an image of the Church.

The Church is the hospital for sinners.

Christ brings wounded souls into His Church so that He can heal them through grace and the Sacraments.

In Baptism, the wound of Original Sin is washed away and we are restored to the life of grace.

When we fall again, Christ does not abandon us along the road. In the Sacrament of Confession, He continues to cleanse our wounds, forgive our sins, and restore us to friendship with God.

And in the Holy Eucharist, He gives us the medicine of immortality. He gives us His own Body and Blood to nourish us, strengthen us, and preserve us against the spiritual diseases that constantly threaten the soul.

And just as the Samaritan in the Gospel paid for the wounded man’s care, Jesus has paid the price for ours.

Not with silver.

Not with gold.

He paid with His own Most Precious Blood.

On the Cross, Christ paid the debt of our sins and opened for us the road back to the Father. He has treated us not according to what our sins deserve, but according to the abundance of His mercy.

But the Gospel cannot end there.

After telling the parable, Jesus says, “Go, and do thou in like manner.”

Once we have experienced the mercy of the Divine Good Samaritan ourselves, we are called to become instruments of that same mercy for others.

There are wounded souls all around us.

Some have never truly known Jesus Christ. Some have wandered far from Him. Some have been wounded by their own sins. Others have been terribly wounded by the sins of those around them. Some may not even realize how badly they need healing.

We cannot simply pass them by.

Our task is not to condemn them. Nor is it to pretend that their wounds do not exist. We are called to meet them with patience, charity, and truth—to help lift them up and gently lead them to the One who alone can truly heal them.

We lead them to Christ.

We lead them to His grace.

We lead them to His Sacraments.

We lead them to His Holy Church.

The world around us is wounded and broken. We see the effects of sin everywhere—in families, in society, in the Church, and in our own hearts. But Christ has not abandoned the wounded traveler along the road.

The Divine Good Samaritan is still passing by.

He still bends down to lift up sinners.

He still cleanses wounds in Confession.

He still feeds souls with His own Body and Blood.

He still brings wounded humanity into the healing care of His Church.

May Jesus, the Divine Good Samaritan, pour out His grace upon all those who are wounded and far from Him. May He bring them into the healing care of His Holy Church.

And may He give each of us the grace to become His hands in a wounded and broken world, helping to carry souls home to Him.

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